{"id":306,"date":"2013-05-31T21:30:20","date_gmt":"2013-05-31T21:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/?page_id=306"},"modified":"2016-10-21T16:06:14","modified_gmt":"2016-10-21T16:06:14","slug":"proces-pomoci","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/pomoc\/konajme\/proces-pomoci\/","title":{"rendered":"Proces pomoci"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u010clovek vystaven\u00fd n\u00e1siliu m\u00e1 v\u017edy pocity bezmocnosti, straty\u00a0kontroly a rozhodovania o vlastnom \u017eivote. V procese pomoci ide\u00a0preto o to, aby sme spolo\u010dne s t\u00fdranou \u017eenou premysleli tak\u00e9 mo\u017enosti\u00a0konania, ktor\u00e9 jej pom\u00f4\u017eu znova nadobudn\u00fa\u0165 kontrolu nad vlastn\u00fdm\u00a0\u017eivotom.<\/p>\n

Prv\u00fd d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd krok spo\u010d\u00edva v z\u00edskan\u00ed a podporovan\u00ed d\u00f4very \u017eeny<\/strong>.\u00a0K tomu patr\u00ed, \u017ee mus\u00edme \u017eenu postihnut\u00fa n\u00e1sil\u00edm bra\u0165 v\u00e1\u017ene, veri\u0165 jej\u00a0a da\u0165 jej najavo, \u017ee jej chceme pom\u00f4c\u0165 bez toho, aby sme ihne\u010f d\u00e1vali\u00a0rady, alebo pon\u00fakali un\u00e1hlen\u00e9 rie\u0161enia.<\/p>\n

Na za\u010diatku je pre \u017eenu najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie, aby c\u00edtila, \u017ee ju akceptujeme, \u017ee\u00a0sa m\u00f4\u017ee slobodne vyjadrova\u0165 a prostredn\u00edctvom rozpr\u00e1vania vlastn\u00e9ho\u00a0pr\u00edbehu z\u00edska\u0165 odstup od svojej situ\u00e1cie a vytvori\u0165 si o nej jasnej\u0161\u00ed\u00a0obraz. Je nevyhnutn\u00e9 zaru\u010di\u0165 \u017eene diskr\u00e9tnos\u0165, ml\u010danlivos\u0165 a dohodn\u00fa\u0165\u00a0s \u0148ou v\u0161etky kroky.<\/p>\n

D\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fdm predpokladom na to, aby sa \u017eena mohla rozhodova\u0165, s\u00fa\u00a0inform\u00e1cie o jej pr\u00e1vach, soci\u00e1lnej a finan\u010dnej pomoci, ubytovac\u00edch\u00a0mo\u017enostiach, podpore pre deti a pod. \u010cas je jedn\u00fdm z d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fdch\u00a0faktorov pri podpore \u017eien. Pomocn\u00edci a pomocn\u00ed\u010dky \u013eahko urobia chybu\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee chc\u00fa kona\u0165 r\u00fdchlo alebo chc\u00fa situ\u00e1ciu ihne\u010f zmeni\u0165, preto\u017ee
\nmaj\u00fa pocit, \u017ee je ne\u00fanosn\u00e1. Pritom si neuvedomuj\u00fa, \u017ee \u017eena postihnut\u00e1\u00a0n\u00e1sil\u00edm mo\u017eno u\u017e ve\u013emi dlho \u017eije v tejto situ\u00e1cii a dok\u00e1\u017ee ju r\u00f4znymi\u00a0sp\u00f4sobmi zvl\u00e1da\u0165.<\/p>\n

Poradenstvo a podporu treba pon\u00faka\u0165 dlh\u0161iu dobu a v\u017edy znova aj\u00a0vtedy, ak \u017eena pomoc hne\u010f neprijme. Okrem toho sa v\u017edy znova treba\u00a0\u017eeny p\u00fdta\u0165, \u010do potrebuje a \u010di je s pon\u00faknutou pomocou spokojn\u00e1.\u00a0Ochrana a bezpe\u010dnos\u0165 \u017eeny postihnutej n\u00e1sil\u00edm a jej det\u00ed je\u00a0najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161\u00edm cie\u013eom ka\u017edej pomoci.<\/p>\n

PR\u00cdPRAVY NA ZABEZPE\u010cENIE \u00da\u010cINNEJ POMOCI<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

V z\u00e1ujme poskytovania \u00fa\u010dinnej pomoci je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 najprv sa o probl\u00e9me\u00a0informova\u0165, zbiera\u0165 informa\u010dn\u00fd materi\u00e1l, prostredn\u00edctvom kurzov\u00a0a semin\u00e1rov rozv\u00edja\u0165 svoju kompetenciu a nadviaza\u0165 kontakty so\u00a0\u0161peci\u00e1lnymi pom\u00e1haj\u00facimi zariadeniami pre \u017eeny. Aktu\u00e1lny informa\u010dn\u00fd\u00a0materi\u00e1l m\u00e1 by\u0165 v pom\u00e1haj\u00facich zariadeniach a in\u0161tit\u00faci\u00e1ch ulo\u017een\u00fd na\u00a0\u010do najvidite\u013enej\u0161om mieste, aby \u017eeny oslovil. Je u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e9, ak je\u00a0informa\u010dn\u00fd materi\u00e1l k dispoz\u00edcii aj v \u010fal\u0161\u00edch jazykoch, ktor\u00e9 sa v krajine\u00a0pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa. Ak pracujete v in\u0161tit\u00facii, ktor\u00e1 sa \u010dasto zaober\u00e1 touto
\nproblematikou (napr. na s\u00fade, v poradni), je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, aby ste so svojimi\u00a0spolupracovn\u00ed\u010dkami a spolupracovn\u00edkmi vypracovali pl\u00e1n, ako mo\u017eno\u00a0v kr\u00edzov\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch pom\u00f4c\u0165 \u017een\u00e1m a de\u0165om postihnut\u00fdm n\u00e1sil\u00edm.<\/p>\n

D\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 je aj konfront\u00e1cia s vlastn\u00fdm strachom z n\u00e1silia a h\u013eadanie\u00a0sp\u00f4sobov, ako tento strach prekona\u0165.<\/p>\n

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Kona\u0165 proti n\u00e1siliu na \u017een\u00e1ch<\/a><\/strong>.\u00a0Vydalo Ministerstvo pr\u00e1ce, soci\u00e1lnych vec\u00ed a rodiny SR v spolupr\u00e1ci s Iniciat\u00edvou Piata \u017eena v roku 2008\u00a0v r\u00e1mci N\u00e1rodnej kampane SR Zastavme dom\u00e1ce n\u00e1silie na \u017een\u00e1ch,\u00a0ktor\u00fa iniciovala Rada Eur\u00f3py.\u00a0Na vydanie pripravili OZ Pro Familia a\u00a0ZZ\u017d ASPEKT.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u010clovek vystaven\u00fd n\u00e1siliu m\u00e1 v\u017edy pocity bezmocnosti, straty\u00a0kontroly a rozhodovania o vlastnom \u017eivote. V procese pomoci ide\u00a0preto o to, aby sme spolo\u010dne s t\u00fdranou \u017eenou premysleli tak\u00e9 mo\u017enosti\u00a0konania, ktor\u00e9 jej pom\u00f4\u017eu znova nadobudn\u00fa\u0165 kontrolu nad vlastn\u00fdm\u00a0\u017eivotom. Prv\u00fd d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd krok spo\u010d\u00edva v z\u00edskan\u00ed a podporovan\u00ed d\u00f4very \u017eeny.\u00a0K tomu patr\u00ed, \u017ee mus\u00edme \u017eenu postihnut\u00fa n\u00e1sil\u00edm bra\u0165 v\u00e1\u017ene, … <\/p>\n

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