{"id":442,"date":"2013-06-01T15:21:01","date_gmt":"2013-06-01T15:21:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/?page_id=442"},"modified":"2013-06-02T06:50:42","modified_gmt":"2013-06-02T06:50:42","slug":"nasledky-na-deti","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/o-nasili-2\/nasledky-nasilia\/nasledky-na-deti\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e1sledky na deti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>50 a\u017e 70 % det\u00ed, ktor\u00fdch matky s\u00fa t\u00fdran\u00e9, je takisto postihnut\u00fdch priamym fyzick\u00fdm, psychick\u00fdm alebo sexualizovan\u00fdm n\u00e1sil\u00edm. <span style=\"color: #ff0000\"><strong>Ka\u017ed\u00e9 die\u0165a, i ke\u010f samo nie je priamo t\u00fdran\u00e9, ve\u013emi trp\u00ed v\u00a0d\u00f4sledku n\u00e1silia p\u00e1chan\u00e9ho na jeho matke<\/strong><\/span>. U mnoh\u00fdch sa za\u010d\u00edna toto tr\u00e1penie u\u017e pred naroden\u00edm: k t\u00fdraniu po\u010das tehotenstva doch\u00e1dza ve\u013emi \u010dasto.<\/p>\n<p>Tieto deti \u017eij\u00fa v atmosf\u00e9re n\u00e1silia a strachu. Ich otcovia s\u00fa n\u00e1siln\u00edcki a ich matky zdeptan\u00e9 svojou \u017eivotnou situ\u00e1ciou.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000\">AKO DETI REAGUJ\u00da NA N\u00c1SILIE<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Niektor\u00e9, najm\u00e4 star\u0161ie deti, sa sna\u017eia matke pom\u00f4c\u0165, a tak si m\u00f4\u017eu privodi\u0165 priame fyzick\u00e9 ohrozenie. In\u00e9 s\u00fa priam ochromen\u00e9 strachom.<\/p>\n<p>Niektor\u00e9 telefonuj\u00fa na pol\u00edciu. Mlad\u0161ie deti sa c\u00edtia vinn\u00e9: \u201eKeby som viac posl\u00fachala (posl\u00fachal), nebol by ocko tak\u00fd zl\u00fd.\u201c Podobne ako ich matky, aj ony sa sna\u017eia vlastn\u00fdm spr\u00e1van\u00edm ovplyvni\u0165 n\u00e1silie zo strany otca a\u00a0s\u00fa frustrovan\u00e9, smutn\u00e9 alebo nahnevan\u00e9, ke\u010f sa im nedar\u00ed n\u00e1silie zastavi\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>Deti, ktor\u00e9 vyrastaj\u00fa v rodin\u00e1ch, kde sa p\u00e1cha n\u00e1silie, sa nau\u010dia pova\u017eova\u0165:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>n\u00e1silie za prijate\u013en\u00fd sp\u00f4sob spr\u00e1vania;<\/li>\n<li>ne\u00factu vo\u010di \u017een\u00e1m za norm\u00e1lnu;<\/li>\n<li>spojenie l\u00e1sky a n\u00e1silia za prijate\u013en\u00e9.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Aj deti, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1siln\u00edcky otec priamo t\u00fdra, ho navonok odmietaj\u00fa len zriedkavo. Ich vz\u0165ah k otcovi je vz\u0165ahom obete k p\u00e1chate\u013eovi. Tento vz\u0165ah charakterizuje okrem in\u00e9ho lojalita k p\u00e1chate\u013eovi a prip\u00fatanie sa k nemu. To je ve\u013emi m\u00e4t\u00face nielen pre deti a ich matky, ale aj pre ich okolie. Deti pre\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa rovnako protichodn\u00e9 pocity k n\u00e1siln\u00edkovi ako ich matky (pozri kapitolu 10: Ako sa vlastn\u00fdmi silami vyrovna\u0165 s n\u00e1sil\u00edm).<\/p>\n<p>V\u0161etky deti sa nespr\u00e1vaj\u00fa rovnako, ale n\u00e1silie m\u00e1 v\u00a0ka\u017edom pr\u00edpade negat\u00edvne d\u00f4sledky na ich fyzick\u00e9 a psychick\u00e9 zdravie. Mnoh\u00e9 deti sa c\u00edtia odli\u0161n\u00e9 od svojich vrstovn\u00edkov a s\u00fa uzavret\u00e9. Maj\u00fa pocity viny, s\u00fa neist\u00e9, osamel\u00e9 a \u00fazkostliv\u00e9. Poci\u0165uj\u00fa zlos\u0165, za ktor\u00fa s\u00fa \u010dasto trestan\u00e9 dvojn\u00e1sobne \u2014 v rodine aj mimo nej, ak sa ich \u201en\u00e1padn\u00e9\u201c spr\u00e1vanie stane ru\u0161iv\u00fdm pre okolie. In\u00e9 deti sa spr\u00e1vaj\u00fa naopak a\u017e mimoriadne \u201epokojne\u201c a prisp\u00f4sobivo, preto ich dospel\u00ed \u010dasto \u201eprehliadaj\u00fa\u201c a neposkytuj\u00fa im potrebn\u00fa pozornos\u0165. Chlapcom, ktor\u00ed za\u017eili n\u00e1silie na svojej matke, hroz\u00ed, \u017ee sa nesk\u00f4r bud\u00fa sami n\u00e1siln\u00edcky spr\u00e1va\u0165 vo\u010di svojim priate\u013ek\u00e1m a man\u017eelk\u00e1m.<\/p>\n<p>Sympt\u00f3my, ktor\u00e9 nazna\u010duj\u00fa, \u017ee die\u0165a pre\u017e\u00edva n\u00e1silie:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>ve\u013ek\u00e1 nervozita a \u00fazkostlivos\u0165;<\/li>\n<li>pomo\u010dovanie;<\/li>\n<li>probl\u00e9my s adapt\u00e1ciou v skupine, nerozvinut\u00e9 z\u00e1ujmy, m\u00e1lo<\/li>\n<li>soci\u00e1lnych kontaktov, zl\u00e9, alebo ve\u013emi premenliv\u00e9 \u0161kolsk\u00e9 v\u00fdsledky;<\/li>\n<li>nepokoj, zn\u00ed\u017een\u00e1 schopnos\u0165 koncentr\u00e1cie;<\/li>\n<li>psychosomatick\u00e9 ochorenia \u2014 astma, bolesti hlavy, \u017eal\u00fado\u010dn\u00e9 a \u010drevn\u00e9 \u0165a\u017ekosti, zajakanie, dif\u00fazne \u0165a\u017ekosti;<\/li>\n<li>extr\u00e9mne agres\u00edvny verb\u00e1lny aj neverb\u00e1lny prejav;<\/li>\n<li>krutos\u0165 vo\u010di zvierat\u00e1m;<\/li>\n<li>\u201e\u00fateky\u201c z domu;<\/li>\n<li>prehnane prisp\u00f4sobiv\u00e9, extr\u00e9mne \u201eposlu\u0161n\u00e9\u201c spr\u00e1vanie.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000\">SITU\u00c1CIA MATIEK<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mnoh\u00e9 matky ochra\u0148uj\u00fa svoje deti pred priamym n\u00e1sil\u00edm zo strany otca. P\u00e1chanie n\u00e1silia na de\u0165och b\u00fdva pre ne \u010dasto posledn\u00fdm argumentom pre rozchod. Prinajmen\u0161om rovnak\u00fd po\u010det matiek v\u0161ak deti u\u017e ochr\u00e1ni\u0165 nedok\u00e1\u017ee. V t\u00fdchto pr\u00edpadoch potrebuj\u00fa podporu nielen deti, ale aj ich matky, preto\u017ee:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>matky prehliadaj\u00fa, alebo bagatelizuj\u00fa n\u00e1silie p\u00e1chan\u00e9 na de\u0165och, podobne ako n\u00e1silie p\u00e1chan\u00e9 na nich sam\u00fdch;<\/li>\n<li>s\u00fa na tom fyzicky a psychicky u\u017e tak zle, \u017ee nevl\u00e1dzu deti chr\u00e1ni\u0165;<\/li>\n<li>maj\u00fa strach, \u017ee deti stratia, ak sa s mu\u017eom neroz\u00eddu;<\/li>\n<li>maj\u00fa strach, \u017ee deti stratia, ak sa s mu\u017eom roz\u00eddu a\u00a0nedok\u00e1\u017eu v s\u00fadnom konan\u00ed o zveren\u00ed det\u00ed do v\u00fdchovy preuk\u00e1za\u0165 \u201eusporiadan\u00e9 bytov\u00e9 pomery\u201c;<\/li>\n<li>niektor\u00e9 t\u00fdran\u00e9 matky v d\u00f4sledku za\u017e\u00edvan\u00e9ho n\u00e1silia aj samy p\u00e1chaj\u00fa n\u00e1silie na svojich de\u0165och a ob\u00e1vaj\u00fa sa odhalenia.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u017deny zanedb\u00e1vaj\u00fa svoje deti, preto\u017ee s\u00fa pozna\u010den\u00e9 vlastn\u00fdmi z\u00e1\u017eitkami s n\u00e1sil\u00edm. Mnoh\u00e9 \u017eeny prestan\u00fa t\u00fdra\u0165 svoje deti alebo ich zanedb\u00e1va\u0165, ke\u010f samy nie s\u00fa ohrozovan\u00e9. Preto\u017ee t\u00fdran\u00e9 \u017eeny ich vlastn\u00e1 situ\u00e1cia extr\u00e9mne za\u0165a\u017euje, je najlep\u0161ou intervenciou v z\u00e1ujme det\u00ed podpora matky. Inform\u00e1cie o pr\u00e1vnych mo\u017enostiach m\u00f4\u017eu neistotu matiek zmen\u0161i\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Zdroj:\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/informacie\/publikacie\/\">Kona\u0165 proti n\u00e1siliu na \u017een\u00e1ch<\/a><\/strong>.\u00a0Vydalo Ministerstvo pr\u00e1ce, soci\u00e1lnych vec\u00ed a rodiny SR v spolupr\u00e1ci s Iniciat\u00edvou Piata \u017eena v roku 2008\u00a0v r\u00e1mci N\u00e1rodnej kampane SR Zastavme dom\u00e1ce n\u00e1silie na \u017een\u00e1ch,\u00a0ktor\u00fa iniciovala Rada Eur\u00f3py.\u00a0Na vydanie pripravili OZ Pro Familia a\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.aspekt.sk\/\" target=\"_blank\">ZZ\u017d ASPEKT.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>50 a\u017e 70 % det\u00ed, ktor\u00fdch matky s\u00fa t\u00fdran\u00e9, je takisto postihnut\u00fdch priamym fyzick\u00fdm, psychick\u00fdm alebo sexualizovan\u00fdm n\u00e1sil\u00edm. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 die\u0165a, i ke\u010f samo nie je priamo t\u00fdran\u00e9, ve\u013emi trp\u00ed v\u00a0d\u00f4sledku n\u00e1silia p\u00e1chan\u00e9ho na jeho matke. U mnoh\u00fdch sa za\u010d\u00edna toto tr\u00e1penie u\u017e pred naroden\u00edm: k t\u00fdraniu po\u010das tehotenstva doch\u00e1dza ve\u013emi \u010dasto. Tieto deti \u017eij\u00fa v &hellip; <\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link block-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/o-nasili-2\/nasledky-nasilia\/nasledky-na-deti\/\">\u010c\u00edta\u0165 viac &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":303,"menu_order":1,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/442"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=442"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/442\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":444,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/442\/revisions\/444"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=442"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}