{"id":446,"date":"2013-06-01T15:28:12","date_gmt":"2013-06-01T15:28:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/?page_id=446"},"modified":"2013-06-01T15:28:12","modified_gmt":"2013-06-01T15:28:12","slug":"deti","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/pomoc\/rozvod\/deti\/","title":{"rendered":"Deti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S rozchodom sa sp\u00e1ja ve\u013ea ot\u00e1zok a ob\u00e1v. Boj\u00edte sa, \u010di v\u00e1m s\u00fad zver\u00ed deti do v\u00fdchovy, boj\u00edte sa aj o ich bud\u00facnos\u0165. No treba myslie\u0165 na to, \u017ee rodina, v ktorej sa vyskytuje n\u00e1silie, po\u0161kodzuje aj deti. Priate\u013eky a priatelia i pr\u00edbuzn\u00ed v\u00e1s \u010dasto e\u0161te utvrdzuj\u00fa vo va\u0161ich obav\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n<p>V skuto\u010dnosti v\u0161ak m\u00e1te ve\u013ek\u00e9 \u0161ance z\u00edska\u0165 deti do svojej v\u00fdchovy, najm\u00e4 ak ste sa o ne starali preva\u017ene sama a ak bol mu\u017e n\u00e1siln\u00edcky aj vo\u010di de\u0165om. Vysvetlite svojim de\u0165om, \u017ee u\u017e nem\u00f4\u017eete \u010falej zn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 n\u00e1silie, aby sa mohli prisp\u00f4sobi\u0165 zmenenej situ\u00e1cii. Ak mus\u00edte opusti\u0165 spolo\u010dn\u00fd byt, vezmite so sebou deti, ak chcete po\u017eiada\u0165, aby boli zveren\u00e9 do v\u00fdchovy v\u00e1m. Hovorte s de\u0165mi o svojom rozhodnut\u00ed a ak je to mo\u017en\u00e9, zaba\u013ete aj veci, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa pre va\u0161e deti d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Ak sa ob\u00e1vate, \u017ee by mu\u017e mohol deti unies\u0165, aby mohol na v\u00e1s vyv\u00edja\u0165 n\u00e1tlak a prin\u00fati\u0165 v\u00e1s k n\u00e1vratu, s\u00fa nevyhnutn\u00e9 \u010fal\u0161ie opatrenia:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Po\u017eiadajte s\u00fad o nariadenie predbe\u017en\u00e9ho opatrenia o zveren\u00ed det\u00ed do v\u00fdchovy v\u00e1m.<\/li>\n<li>Odlo\u017ete doklady det\u00ed na bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 miesto.<\/li>\n<li>K\u00f3pie v\u0161etk\u00fdch s\u00fadnych rozhodnut\u00ed noste pri sebe.<\/li>\n<li>Zabezpe\u010dte si aktu\u00e1lnu fotografiu svojho mu\u017ea a det\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li>Informujte o situ\u00e1cii osoby, ktor\u00e9 sa o va\u0161e die\u0165a staraj\u00fa (u\u010dite\u013eky a pod.).<\/li>\n<li>Pozhov\u00e1rajte sa s de\u0165mi o tom, ako by mohli v takej situ\u00e1cii reagova\u0165.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Ak va\u0161e die\u0165a hovor\u00ed o t\u00fdran\u00ed alebo sexu\u00e1lnom zneu\u017e\u00edvan\u00ed:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Uverte mu, deti si tak\u00e9to veci len ve\u013emi zriedka vym\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00fa.<\/li>\n<li>Zachovajte pokoj, preto\u017ee prehnan\u00e1 reakcia m\u00f4\u017ee zosilni\u0165 traumu die\u0165a\u0165a.<\/li>\n<li>Povedzte die\u0165a\u0165u, \u017ee na n\u00e1sil\u00ed nenesie \u017eiadnu vinu.<\/li>\n<li>Vyh\u013eadajte pedagogicko\u2013psychologick\u00fa porad\u0148u; pora\u010fte sa, ak\u00e9 kroky na podporu die\u0165a\u0165a m\u00f4\u017eete urobi\u0165.<\/li>\n<li>Kontaktujte pracovn\u00ed\u010dku alebo pracovn\u00edka odboru soci\u00e1lnych vec\u00ed pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00e9ho \u00daPSVaR.<\/li>\n<li>Obr\u00e1\u0165te sa na niektor\u00fa z organiz\u00e1ci\u00ed poskytuj\u00facich pomoc \u017een\u00e1m a\/alebo de\u0165om<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>St\u00e1va sa, \u017ee otcovia svoje deti t\u00fdraj\u00fa a\/alebo sexu\u00e1lne zneu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa v \u010dase stretnut\u00ed vymedzen\u00fdch s\u00fadom alebo dohodnut\u00fdch s matkou.<\/p>\n<p>Ak spozorujete podozriv\u00e9 pr\u00edznaky alebo v\u00e1m die\u0165a o tom povie, obr\u00e1\u0165te sa na porad\u0148u pre \u017eeny a urobte pr\u00e1vne kroky na ochranu die\u0165a\u0165a: po\u017eiadajte o pomoc odbor soci\u00e1lnych vec\u00ed pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00e9ho \u00daPSVaR, podajte na s\u00fade n\u00e1vrh na z\u00e1kaz styku otca s die\u0165a\u0165om, pr\u00edpadne na nariadenie predbe\u017en\u00e9ho opatrenia o z\u00e1kaze styku. Hodnovernos\u0165 v\u00fdpoved\u00ed die\u0165a\u0165a m\u00f4\u017eete podpori\u0165 lek\u00e1rskym potvrden\u00edm v pr\u00edpade, \u017ee s\u00fa zranenia vidite\u013en\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Niektor\u00ed sudcovia a sudkyne, \u017eia\u013e, interpretuj\u00fa tieto obvinenia ako znamenie nezvl\u00e1dnut\u00fdch konfliktov medzi rodi\u010dmi po rozchode. V takom pr\u00edpade potrebujete pr\u00e1vnu pomoc, ktor\u00fa v\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017ee sprostredkova\u0165 niektor\u00e1 z organiz\u00e1ci\u00ed, resp. zariaden\u00ed poskytuj\u00facich pomoc \u017een\u00e1m a de\u0165om. Odlo\u017ete z\u00e1brany a hovorte s poradensk\u00fdmi pracovn\u00ed\u010dkami otvorene. Pam\u00e4tajte, \u017ee svojim de\u0165om budete m\u00f4c\u0165 dopria\u0165 l\u00e1sku a primeran\u00fa starostlivos\u0165 len vtedy, ak sa vy sama budete c\u00edti\u0165 dobre.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Zdroj:\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/informacie\/publikacie\/\">Kona\u0165 proti n\u00e1siliu na \u017een\u00e1ch<\/a><\/strong>.\u00a0Vydalo Ministerstvo pr\u00e1ce, soci\u00e1lnych vec\u00ed a rodiny SR v spolupr\u00e1ci s Iniciat\u00edvou Piata \u017eena v roku 2008\u00a0v r\u00e1mci N\u00e1rodnej kampane SR Zastavme dom\u00e1ce n\u00e1silie na \u017een\u00e1ch,\u00a0ktor\u00fa iniciovala Rada Eur\u00f3py.\u00a0Na vydanie pripravili OZ Pro Familia a\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.aspekt.sk\/\" target=\"_blank\">ZZ\u017d ASPEKT.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S rozchodom sa sp\u00e1ja ve\u013ea ot\u00e1zok a ob\u00e1v. Boj\u00edte sa, \u010di v\u00e1m s\u00fad zver\u00ed deti do v\u00fdchovy, boj\u00edte sa aj o ich bud\u00facnos\u0165. No treba myslie\u0165 na to, \u017ee rodina, v ktorej sa vyskytuje n\u00e1silie, po\u0161kodzuje aj deti. Priate\u013eky a priatelia i pr\u00edbuzn\u00ed v\u00e1s \u010dasto e\u0161te utvrdzuj\u00fa vo va\u0161ich obav\u00e1ch. V skuto\u010dnosti v\u0161ak m\u00e1te ve\u013ek\u00e9 &hellip; <\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link block-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/pomoc\/rozvod\/deti\/\">\u010c\u00edta\u0165 viac &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":395,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/446"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=446"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/446\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":447,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/446\/revisions\/447"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/395"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=446"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}