{"id":471,"date":"2013-06-01T16:40:28","date_gmt":"2013-06-01T16:40:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/?page_id=471"},"modified":"2016-10-20T21:19:19","modified_gmt":"2016-10-20T21:19:19","slug":"nasilni-muzi","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/o-nasili-2\/priciny\/nasilni-muzi\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e1siln\u00ed mu\u017ei"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>N\u00e1siln\u00edcki mu\u017ei vn\u00edmaj\u00fa moc a kontrolu ako z\u00e1klad svojich int\u00edmnych vz\u0165ahov<\/strong>. N\u00e1siln\u00edckym spr\u00e1van\u00edm uvo\u013e\u0148uj\u00fa vlastn\u00fa nespokojnos\u0165 a s\u00fa\u010dasne znemo\u017e\u0148uj\u00fa \u017een\u00e1m, aby samy vyjadrili svoje potreby. Takto sa vyh\u00fdbaj\u00fa konfront\u00e1cii, ktor\u00e1 im je nepr\u00edjemn\u00e1 a mohla by ohrozi\u0165 ich privil\u00e9gi\u00e1. N\u00e1silie teda nevedie k rie\u0161eniu konfliktov, ale k ich potl\u00e1\u010daniu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00e1siln\u00edcki mu\u017ei maj\u00fa \u010dasto extr\u00e9mne tradi\u010dn\u00e9 n\u00e1zory na rolu mu\u017ea a \u017eeny<\/strong>. Pod\u013ea tejto my\u0161lienkovej sch\u00e9my sa \u017eena m\u00e1 stara\u0165 o dom\u00e1cu pohodu, emocionalitu a dom\u00e1cnos\u0165, mu\u017e m\u00e1 rodinu zabezpe\u010di\u0165 a je to on, kto m\u00e1 aj rozhodova\u0165. Aj ke\u010f je konkr\u00e9tna \u017eivotn\u00e1 situ\u00e1cia \u00faplne in\u00e1, pridr\u017eiavaj\u00fa sa mnoh\u00ed mu\u017ei tejto predstavy. K tradi\u010dn\u00e9mu ch\u00e1paniu rol\u00ed patr\u00ed aj n\u00e1zor, \u017ee mu\u017e si m\u00e1 svoje probl\u00e9my rie\u0161i\u0165 s\u00e1m a nesmie po\u017eiada\u0165 in\u00fdch o pomoc.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e1siln\u00edcki mu\u017ei vystupuj\u00fa navonok \u010dasto ako dobre prisp\u00f4soben\u00ed, verb\u00e1lne odmietaj\u00fa \u201ebezd\u00f4vodn\u00e9 n\u00e1silie\u201c a di\u0161tancuj\u00fa sa od p\u00e1chate\u013eov n\u00e1silia. Svoje vlastn\u00e9 n\u00e1siln\u00edcke spr\u00e1vanie ch\u00e1pu ako opr\u00e1vnen\u00fa reakciu na chybu \u017eeny alebo ako nie\u010do, \u010do je mimo ich kontroly. N\u00e1siln\u00edcki mu\u017ei s\u00fa \u201emajstri sveta\u201c v zapieran\u00ed a z\u013eah\u010dovan\u00ed situ\u00e1cie. Svoje vlastn\u00e9 spr\u00e1vanie nikdy neozna\u010duj\u00fa ako n\u00e1siln\u00edcke, ale hovoria o \u201eh\u00e1dke\u201c, \u201ekonflikte\u201c alebo o \u201epot\u00fd\u010dke\u201c. Jeden mu\u017e napr\u00edklad pichol no\u017eom do krku svoju \u017eenu a nazval to \u201emen\u0161\u00edm \u0161krabnut\u00edm\u201c (p\u00e1n F., citovan\u00e9 pod\u013ea Fr\u00f6schl \u2014 L\u00f6w 1992, zv. 1, s. 74). Mu\u017ei, ktor\u00ed t\u00fdraj\u00fa \u017eeny, pova\u017euj\u00fa pou\u017e\u00edvanie n\u00e1silia pri presadzovan\u00ed svojich z\u00e1ujmov za opr\u00e1vnen\u00e9, a preto v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou nemaj\u00fa z\u00e1ujem o zmenu svojho spr\u00e1vania. Medzin\u00e1rodn\u00e9 \u0161t\u00fadie pri\u0161li k z\u00e1veru, \u017ee najm\u00e4 zverejnenie n\u00e1siln\u00edckych \u010dinov a zapojenie kompetentn\u00fdch policajn\u00fdch a s\u00fadnych in\u0161tit\u00faci\u00ed odr\u00e1dza mu\u017eov od op\u00e4tovn\u00e9ho pou\u017eitia n\u00e1silia. Osoby so spolo\u010denskou mocou a prest\u00ed\u017eou ako lek\u00e1rky a lek\u00e1ri, sudkyne a sudcovia, policajtky a policajti m\u00f4\u017eu zastavi\u0165 n\u00e1silie, ak vystupuj\u00fa kompetentne a ak vyu\u017eij\u00fa svoje pr\u00e1vomoci.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Zdroj:\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/informacie\/publikacie\/\">Kona\u0165 proti n\u00e1siliu na \u017een\u00e1ch<\/a><\/strong>.\u00a0Vydalo Ministerstvo pr\u00e1ce, soci\u00e1lnych vec\u00ed a rodiny SR v spolupr\u00e1ci s Iniciat\u00edvou Piata \u017eena v roku 2008\u00a0v r\u00e1mci N\u00e1rodnej kampane SR Zastavme dom\u00e1ce n\u00e1silie na \u017een\u00e1ch,\u00a0ktor\u00fa iniciovala Rada Eur\u00f3py.\u00a0Na vydanie pripravili OZ Pro Familia a\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.aspekt.sk\/\" target=\"_blank\">ZZ\u017d ASPEKT.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e1siln\u00edcki mu\u017ei vn\u00edmaj\u00fa moc a kontrolu ako z\u00e1klad svojich int\u00edmnych vz\u0165ahov. N\u00e1siln\u00edckym spr\u00e1van\u00edm uvo\u013e\u0148uj\u00fa vlastn\u00fa nespokojnos\u0165 a s\u00fa\u010dasne znemo\u017e\u0148uj\u00fa \u017een\u00e1m, aby samy vyjadrili svoje potreby. Takto sa vyh\u00fdbaj\u00fa konfront\u00e1cii, ktor\u00e1 im je nepr\u00edjemn\u00e1 a mohla by ohrozi\u0165 ich privil\u00e9gi\u00e1. N\u00e1silie teda nevedie k rie\u0161eniu konfliktov, ale k ich potl\u00e1\u010daniu. N\u00e1siln\u00edcki mu\u017ei maj\u00fa \u010dasto extr\u00e9mne tradi\u010dn\u00e9 &hellip; <\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link block-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/o-nasili-2\/priciny\/nasilni-muzi\/\">\u010c\u00edta\u0165 viac &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":1434,"menu_order":1,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/471"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=471"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/471\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1449,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/471\/revisions\/1449"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=471"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}