{"id":649,"date":"2013-11-06T14:46:58","date_gmt":"2013-11-06T14:46:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/?p=649"},"modified":"2014-02-11T15:36:50","modified_gmt":"2014-02-11T15:36:50","slug":"blog-prevencia-znasilnenia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/2013\/11\/06\/blog-prevencia-znasilnenia\/","title":{"rendered":"Blog: Prevencia zn\u00e1silnenia"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Blog SME \/ Jazyk je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd. Slov\u00e1 maj\u00fa svoju moc, zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 vyslovene \u013eu\u010fmi, \u010do maj\u00fa moc nad in\u00fdmi<\/a>. \u017dijeme v spolo\u010dnosti, kde je ob\u010das be\u017ene pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 ozna\u010dova\u0165 \u017eenu ako “kurva”, “\u0161tetka”, “suka” alebo “pi\u010da”. V takom kontexte je \u013eahk\u00e9 ich nevidie\u0165 ako plnohodnoteho \u010dloveka, \u010do si zasl\u00fa\u017ei rovnak\u00fd re\u0161pekt.<\/div>\n
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Komunikujeme. Sexu\u00e1lne n\u00e1silie vznik\u00e1 \u010dasto tam, kde sa nekomunikuje. Na\u0161a neochota hovori\u0165 otvorene a \u00faprimne o sexe dramatick\u00fd dv\u00edha riziko zn\u00e1silnenia. Ak sa nau\u010d\u00edme vyjadri\u0165 jasne svoje t\u00fa\u017eby, ochotu po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 toho druheho a hlavne sp\u00fdta\u0165 sa, ke\u010f je nie\u010do nejasn\u00e9 – bude sex bezpe\u010dnej\u0161\u00ed pre n\u00e1s aj pre druh\u00fdch.<\/div>\n
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S\u00fahlas. “Nie” je nie, “mo\u017eno” je nie. Alkohol, sp\u00e1nok, oble\u010denie, \u010di aj nahota – to nie je s\u00fahlas so sexom. A to plat\u00ed aj pre okolie – pochybnos\u0165 o s\u00fahlase jednej str\u00e1n nie s\u00fa dovodom k ml\u010daniu, ale pr\u00e1ve naopak. Sta\u010d\u00ed sa sp\u00fdta\u0165, ak ale nedostanete jasn\u00fa odpove\u010f, treba rad\u0161ej predpoklada\u0165, \u017ee nejde o obojstrann\u00fd akt.<\/div>\n
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Ozva\u0165 sa. Pravdepodobne nikdy neuvid\u00ed\u0161 zn\u00e1silnenie na\u017eivo, aby si mu zabr\u00e1nil. Ale takmer ur\u010dite bude\u0161 svedkom spr\u00e1vania a postoje, ktor\u00e9 degraduj\u00fa \u017eeny a u\u013eah\u010duj\u00fa zn\u00e1silnenie. Ak ti niekto povie vtip, kde pointa spo\u010d\u00edva v z\u013eah\u010dovan\u00ed zn\u00e1silnenia – povedz mu proste, \u017ee to nie je vtipn\u00e9. Niekedy sa bude nutn\u00e9 ozva\u0165 aj vo vlastnej rodine, rodov\u00e9 stereotypy s\u00fa bohu\u017eia\u013e vlastne aj mnoh\u00fdm \u017een\u00e1m.<\/div>\n
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Hovor\u00edme so \u017eenami. Nielen o tom, \u010di boli zn\u00e1silnen\u00e9, ako to ovplyvnilo ich \u017eivoty. Ale hlavne o tom, \u010do spravi\u0165 pre to, aby sa samy c\u00edtili bezpe\u010dnej\u0161ie.<\/div>\n
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Hovor\u00edme s mu\u017emi. Ak\u00fd je to pocit by\u0165 pova\u017eovan\u00fd za potenci\u00e1lneho n\u00e1siln\u00edka, o fakte \u017ee pod\u013ea niektor\u00fdch zdrojov je a\u017e 10-20% mu\u017eov niekedy v \u017eivote sexu\u00e1lne ob\u0165a\u017eovan\u00fdch. \u010ci o tom, \u010di niekedy poznali obe\u0165 zn\u00e1silnenia a ako na to chceli reagova\u0165 a reagovali.<\/div>\n
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Diskrimin\u00e1cia. Rasizmus a homof\u00f3bia (netv\u00e1rme sa, \u017ee toto na Slovensku nie je) s\u00fa \u017eivnou p\u00f4dou pre sexu\u00e1lne n\u00e1silie.<\/div>\n

\u010c\u00edtajte viac: http:\/\/ivanhorvat.blog.sme.sk\/c\/341377\/Prevencia-znasilnenia.html#ixzz2jsQS9wjh<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Blog SME \/ Jazyk je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd. Slov\u00e1 maj\u00fa svoju moc, zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 vyslovene \u013eu\u010fmi, \u010do maj\u00fa moc nad in\u00fdmi. \u017dijeme v spolo\u010dnosti, kde je ob\u010das be\u017ene pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 ozna\u010dova\u0165 \u017eenu ako “kurva”, “\u0161tetka”, “suka” alebo “pi\u010da”. V takom kontexte je \u013eahk\u00e9 ich nevidie\u0165 ako plnohodnoteho \u010dloveka, \u010do si zasl\u00fa\u017ei rovnak\u00fd re\u0161pekt. \u00a0 Komunikujeme. Sexu\u00e1lne n\u00e1silie vznik\u00e1 \u010dasto … <\/p>\n

\u010c\u00edta\u0165 viac »<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":650,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[24],"tags":[26],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/649"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=649"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/649\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":680,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/649\/revisions\/680"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/650"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=649"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=649"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=649"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}