{"id":662,"date":"2013-11-25T13:23:59","date_gmt":"2013-11-25T13:23:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/?p=662"},"modified":"2014-02-11T15:36:32","modified_gmt":"2014-02-11T15:36:32","slug":"slovensko-ma-tisice-obeti-sexualneho-nasilia-projekt-nemlcme-im-chce-podat-pomocnu-ruku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gender.gov.sk\/zastavmenasilie\/2013\/11\/25\/slovensko-ma-tisice-obeti-sexualneho-nasilia-projekt-nemlcme-im-chce-podat-pomocnu-ruku\/","title":{"rendered":"Slovensko m\u00e1 tis\u00edce obet\u00ed sexu\u00e1lneho n\u00e1silia, projekt Neml\u010dme! im chce poda\u0165 pomocn\u00fa ruku"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bratislava, 25. novembra 2013<\/strong> \u2013 Svet si dnes pripom\u00edna Medzin\u00e1rodn\u00fd de\u0148 boja proti n\u00e1siliu p\u00e1chan\u00e9ho na \u017een\u00e1ch.\u00a0Odhaduje sa, \u017ee na Slovensku d\u00f4jde ka\u017ed\u00fd rok k\u00a0tis\u00edcom zn\u00e1silnen\u00ed, obete sa v\u0161ak na pol\u00edciu odhodlaj\u00fa nahl\u00e1si\u0165 iba desiatky pr\u00edpadov. \u010casto toti\u017e pod\u013ea odborn\u00edkov zo strachu pred reakciami okolia zn\u00e1silnenie nepriznaj\u00fa. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina z nich tak zost\u00e1va \u010dasto \u017ei\u0165 so svojou traumou sama, tr\u00e1pi sa sebaobvi\u0148ovan\u00edm, \u010do v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou vedie k\u00a0psychick\u00fdm probl\u00e9mom. Pomocn\u00fa ruku chce preto obetiam poda\u0165 projekt a port\u00e1l Neml\u010dme!. Stoj\u00ed za n\u00edm mlad\u00e1 \u017eena, ktor\u00e1 na vlastnej ko\u017ei za\u017eila sexu\u00e1lne n\u00e1silie a\u00a0verejne o\u00a0tomto probl\u00e9me prehovorila.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e1pad vytvori\u0165 port\u00e1l pre v\u0161etky obete sexu\u00e1lneho n\u00e1silia, nielen \u017eeny, nemlcme.sk<\/a> nosila inici\u00e1torka projektu D\u00e1lia Gregorov\u00e1 v\u00a0hlave u\u017e roky, svetlo sveta uzrel dnes. Definit\u00edvne sa ho rozhodla realizova\u0165 po tom, \u010do o\u00a0svojej sk\u00fasenosti prehovorila verejne a\u00a0nap\u00edsala blog<\/a>. Ten spustil ne\u010dakan\u00fa odozvu, otvoril diskusiu a\u00a0vyvolal z\u00e1ujem. \u201eNe\u010dakala som to. Najviac ma prekvapilo a\u00a0pote\u0161ilo z\u00e1rove\u0148, \u017ee behom p\u00e1r dn\u00ed sa ozvali \u010fal\u0161ie obete sexu\u00e1lneho n\u00e1silia a\u00a0boli ochotn\u00e9 o\u00a0tom hovori\u0165.\u00a0 Zrazu som c\u00edtila ve\u013ek\u00fa \u00fa\u013eavu. Tento pocit v\u0161ak \u010doskoro prer\u00e1stol do pocitu zodpovednosti, preto\u017ee z\u00a0vlastnej sk\u00fasenosti viem, ak\u00e9 \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 je o\u00a0tom hovori\u0165 s\u00a0k\u00fdmko\u013evek, nieto e\u0161te verejne. Pod dojmom spont\u00e1nnej kladnej reakcie som sa rozhodla, \u017ee sk\u00fasim pom\u00f4c\u0165 aj \u010fal\u0161\u00edm, ktor\u00ed to potrebuj\u00fa,\u201c<\/em> povedala dnes u\u017e nast\u00e1vaj\u00faca mami\u010dka.<\/p>\n

Od kr\u00e1tkych internetov\u00fdch diskusi\u00ed s\u00a0priate\u013emi a\u00a0zn\u00e1mymi, cez mno\u017estvo podporn\u00fdch emailov od \u013eud\u00ed bola pomerne r\u00fdchla cesta k\u00a0zriadeniu str\u00e1nky na Facebook-u<\/a> a\u00a0iniciovaniu projektu na filantropickom port\u00e1li \u013dudia\u013du\u010fom.sk<\/a>. Ten sa v\u00a0s\u00fa\u010dasnosti uch\u00e1dza o\u00a0podporu verejnosti, ktor\u00e1 m\u00f4\u017ee pom\u00f4c\u0165 jeho realiz\u00e1cii. \u201cPort\u00e1l a projekt \u013dudia\u013du\u010fom.sk je postaven\u00fd na my\u0161lienke ochoty \u013eud\u00ed nezi\u0161tne pom\u00e1ha\u0165. Ke\u010f sme sa dozvedeli o iniciat\u00edve pre podporu obet\u00ed sexu\u00e1lneho n\u00e1silia, ktor\u00e1 vznikla presne v duchu tejto my\u0161lienky, boli sme radi, \u017ee sme jej mohli poskytn\u00fa\u0165 jedno z prv\u00fdch \u00fato\u010d\u00edsk v slovenskom virtu\u00e1lnom priestore,\u201d<\/em> pribl\u00ed\u017eil Roland Ky\u0161ka, v\u00fdkonn\u00fd riadite\u013e port\u00e1lu.<\/p>\n

K\u00a0iniciat\u00edve sa od jej vzniku prihl\u00e1silo 15 dobrovo\u013en\u00edkov, ktor\u00ed pracuj\u00fa na naplnen\u00ed jej predst\u00e1v. Okrem nich n\u00e1pad podporili aj \u010fal\u0161\u00ed jednotlivci a\u00a0organiz\u00e1cie, ktor\u00e9 maj\u00fa k\u00a0tak\u00fdmto snah\u00e1m bl\u00edzko. \u201eN\u00e1silie nadob\u00fada r\u00f4zne formy a\u00a0sexu\u00e1lne n\u00e1silie je jedn\u00fdm z najzra\u0148uj\u00facej\u0161\u00edch (ak sa to d\u00e1 v\u00f4bec odstup\u0148ova\u0165). Preto sme rady\/i, \u017ee sa na\u0161la skupina \u013eud\u00ed s\u00a0odhodlan\u00edm tento temn\u00fd rozmer na\u0161ich neverejn\u00fdch \u017eivotov pomenova\u0165, vysvetli\u0165 a\u00a0poda\u0165 ruku vo forme empatickej medzi\u013eudskej, ale i\u00a0odbornej pomoci. S\u00a0inici\u00e1torkou projektu D. Gregorovou sme v\u00a0\u00fazkom spojen\u00ed a\u00a0pripraven\u00ed poradi\u0165 a\u00a0pom\u00f4c\u0165 v\u00a0prv\u00fdch krokoch a\u00a0smerovan\u00ed iniciat\u00edvy, ktor\u00e1 sa sn\u00e1\u010f \u010dasom pretav\u00ed do spo\u013eahlivej a\u00a0re\u0161pektovanej organiz\u00e1cie,\u201c<\/em> uviedla riadite\u013ea Aliancie \u017eien Mgr. Katar\u00edna Farka\u0161ov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Port\u00e1l pre obete sexu\u00e1lneho n\u00e1silia m\u00e1 amb\u00edciu pokry\u0165 viacer\u00e9 aspekty probl\u00e9mu. Jeho cie\u013eom je by\u0165\u00a0 nielen miestom prv\u00e9ho kontaktu a\u00a0podpory pre obete, svedkov a\u00a0pr\u00edbuzn\u00fdch, chce tie\u017e poskytova\u0165 vstupn\u00fa br\u00e1nu k\u00a0odbornej pomoci a\u00a0poskytn\u00fa\u0165 \u00fato\u010disko komunitnej platforme s\u00a0cie\u013eom v\u00fdmeny inform\u00e1ci\u00ed. Rovnako by mal \u0161\u00edri\u0165 osvetu a\u00a0vytvori\u0165 priestor na poskytnutie hmotnej pomoci zn\u00e1silnen\u00fdm.<\/p>\n

\u201ePodstatn\u00fa \u010das\u0165 svojej kari\u00e9ry sa venujem ot\u00e1zkam rozdielov v\u00a0postaven\u00ed a\u00a0pr\u00edstupe k\u00a0\u017een\u00e1m. Jedn\u00fdm z\u00a0najkrik\u013eavej\u0161\u00edch a, \u017eia\u013e, v\u00a0dne\u0161nej slovenskej spolo\u010dnosti e\u0161te st\u00e1le pomerne tabuizovan\u00fdch a\u00a0prehliadan\u00fdch probl\u00e9mov, ktor\u00fd s\u00favis\u00ed s\u00a0celospolo\u010denskou paradigmou odli\u0161n\u00e9ho vn\u00edmania \u017eensk\u00e9ho sveta, je n\u00e1silie na \u017een\u00e1ch a v r\u00e1mci neho hlavne sexu\u00e1lne n\u00e1silie. Som rada, \u017ee sa r\u00fdchlo sformoval mal\u00fd ak\u010dn\u00fd t\u00edm a\u00a0\u017ee sa na webe a facebookovej str\u00e1nke dostavila tak\u00e1 pozit\u00edvna odozva na jeho prv\u00e9 kroky. D\u00fafam, \u017ee sa \u010doskoro do\u010dk\u00e1me prvej verzie port\u00e1lu a\u00a0\u017ee bud\u00fa prib\u00fada\u0165 \u010fal\u0161ie kroky, aktivity a\u00a0diskusie ved\u00face k\u00a0jednozna\u010dn\u00e9mu odmietnutiu tak\u00e9hoto konania,\u201c<\/em> zhrnula na z\u00e1ver\u00a0 zn\u00e1ma aktivistka v oblasti pr\u00e1v \u017eien O\u013ega Pietruchov\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\u010eakujeme, \u017ee n\u00e1m pom\u00e1hate poda\u0165 pomocn\u00fa ruku obetiam sexu\u00e1lneho n\u00e1silia.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Dopl\u0148uj\u00face inform\u00e1cie
\n<\/strong>
\nNeml\u010dme! o.z.<\/strong> je pripravovan\u00e1 neziskov\u00e1 organiz\u00e1cia zastre\u0161uj\u00faca aktivity a\u00a0\u013eud\u00ed pom\u00e1haj\u00facich obetiam sexu\u00e1lneho n\u00e1silia (ako aj svedkom, rodinn\u00fdm pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edkom a\u00a0\u010fal\u0161\u00edm).<\/p>\n

Kontakt pre \u010fal\u0161ie inform\u00e1cie:<\/strong>
\nDalia Gregorov\u00e1<\/p>\n

+421 908472570
\nnemlcme@nemlcme.sk<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bratislava, 25. novembra 2013 \u2013 Svet si dnes pripom\u00edna Medzin\u00e1rodn\u00fd de\u0148 boja proti n\u00e1siliu p\u00e1chan\u00e9ho na \u017een\u00e1ch.\u00a0Odhaduje sa, \u017ee na Slovensku d\u00f4jde ka\u017ed\u00fd rok k\u00a0tis\u00edcom zn\u00e1silnen\u00ed, obete sa v\u0161ak na pol\u00edciu odhodlaj\u00fa nahl\u00e1si\u0165 iba desiatky pr\u00edpadov. \u010casto toti\u017e pod\u013ea odborn\u00edkov zo strachu pred reakciami okolia zn\u00e1silnenie nepriznaj\u00fa. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina z nich tak zost\u00e1va \u010dasto \u017ei\u0165 so … <\/p>\n

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